Most people will have heard about leather, whips and masochism; but it still feels like an alien concept to a lot of us. It might sound fun for some but for most the idea of pain and domination just doesn’t equal to the idea of pleasure. Maybe we just like to stay within a certain comfort zone, but the truth is that things can be pushed to quite a far extent, where pleasure and pain are all intertwined together. Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism might just be that pure escapism you’ve been looking for without really knowing it.

Online BDSM

It isn’t so hard to find partner for our kinky endeavours, especially now that dating websites of all different niches have literally exploded other the internet. My BDSM Hookups is one of those online places where people come to find partners for their kinkiest endeavours; and as you will find out there is no shortage of males and females who enjoy bondage related sex activities. If you are looking to get into BDSM then why not try this sort of site; you will get to meet people and they will talk you through how it all works. Just remember to take your time as there is a lot to be learned.

The joys of dominating

We spend so much time following orders at work that we sometimes feel like we never have control over anything. This can be frustrating; and life often doesn’t give us that opportunity to take over; to prove ourselves that we can be the boss too. Domination allows us to do exactly that: we control the situation, we give the orders and we are responsible for the well-being of our partner. This not only gives us some authority; but also puts us in a position where people have to trust us.

Being dominated

Other people just really enjoy following orders and being told what to do in bed. It is a way to give up on all the control they have over their professional and private life. Those people are often in a role that involves giving orders at work and at home; and it feels great for them to let go of that authority to have someone else taking charge instead. It makes sense after all, and seeing it from this perspective gives us a better understanding as to why some people could possibly enjoy getting wiped and dominated.

All about rules

This sort of role playing involves a lot of rules that really need to be followed. From signals to indicate there is too much pain to establishing what can or cannot be done, it all requires some talking and organization. If you are new to this scene, we really recommend that you read about it. Meet people who enjoy BDSM and ask them questions; it might sound annoying when you’re asking obvious questions but you’re better off knowing than assuming. You will need to trust other people with potentially dangerous practices so you really need to know what you’re getting into. Sounds intense? Some people like it that way, and if you feel like taking that step then just do it right and you might discover your next favourite source of enjoyment.